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Jay (40) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 4231600
Ventura, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
For: Penpal, Friendship, Marriage

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Education: No Answer
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: No religion
Occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service


Life isn’t a race, and it definitely isn’t a straight line from beginning to end. I believe in goals and beliefs, but put more emphasis into the daily and hourly things in life. I’ve put a lot of hard work into where I am at today, but it all means less without someone to share it with. Money can’t ...read more >>

Life isn’t a race, and it definitely isn’t a straight line from beginning to end. I believe in goals and beliefs, but put more emphasis into the daily and hourly things in life. I’ve put a lot of hard work into where I am at today, but it all means less without someone to share it with. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy tacos. I find this Avenue frustrating, because let’s be honest, I don’t see the majority of people being here for love. It takes a certain amount of humility to join a dating site at 40, but I did. To me it made sense that other people in my shoes would be here too. But it seems pretty superficial for the most part. That’s ok. I know I can’t put a picture of what I’m not, I could, but it’s fair not to. I guess being super attractive instead of genuine is what it is nowadays. I get it. Shiny things are pretty. Maybe that’s why a lot of us are here. Think that’s part of why I’m here. I’m tired of shallow, not genuine, fake love. Pretty doesn’t last forever. At some point it’s good to grow a soul, and share it with someone. Life is short, but love lives on forever. I’d like to think there’s more to a person than what I see at first. So about me, I’d like to think I’m clever, witty. I approach life with a logical and rational outlook. Think that’s one of the reasons people always enjoyed working for me. I stay cool under pressure. Yelling doesn’t solve anything. I love adventure and discovering new things. It’s nice to get off the beaten path and just imagine who might have been here last. I’m philosophical, and genuine. I don’t talk a lot because I like my words to have meaning. In essence I mean what I say. I’m an old soul with traditional values. I only have room in my life for one woman, so if we’re hitting it off, I’m not looking for greener pastures. I believe nobody can be everything to someone, but at some point you have to be content, happy, and just get over yourself. Nobody is perfect. That’s what makes us awesome. Flaws are strengths if you use them properly, and I have plenty of my own and I’m not afraid to admit them.

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About Jay

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 40 23 - 39
Lives in: Ventura, California, United States Any
Relocate: Not willing to relocate Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Brown Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Wavy Any
Eye color: Hazel Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 6'6" (199 cm) Any
Weight: 134 kg (295 lb) Any
Body style: Few Extra Pounds Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Short Beard N/A
Best feature: My Hands Any
Body art: Tattoo Any
Appearance: Average Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home No
Number of children: 2 Any
Oldest child: 11 Any
Youngest child: 6 Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: Dog,Cat Any
Occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: $120,001 - $180,000 USD Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Any
Education: No Answer Any
Languages spoken: No Answer Any
English ability: Fluent Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Spanish ability: Some Any
Religion: No religion Any
Religious values: Not Religious Any
Star sign: Aquarius Any
Personal 
Bust cup size: N/A Any
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any

Someone as faithful and devoted as I will be. Someone to continue this journey through life with who isn’t looking for the next exit.

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