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thomas is from United States

thomas (37)

Love Doctor needs a Patient Palo Alto, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am a graduate of Princeton. I own my home here in Palo. I have not put much effort forth on this whole relationship thing since I lost my wife to the war in Iraq. I enjoy going to the gym and riding my motorcycle. I love children and have dedicated my practice to caring for them. I am a member of Doctors without Borders and am an avid artist. I enjoy painting outdoor scenes of the rolling green hillsides. I am a loving dog owner and enjoy a soothing sunset beach picnic.


Brian is from United States

Brian (64)

Male --- widowed Fresno, California, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 54 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Married once, now widowed. Have 2 adult children -- prefer not to raise any more. I am new to this and this is my first experience with the online thing. I am honest and am looking for a long-term relationship (friendship, fun, maybe more). Strongly believe in honesty, mutual trust and friendship. Have traveled extensively before my pre-married life and have experienced many different cultures on different continents. I enjoy almost all things outdoors, reading, good movies (all genres), and quiet time being close together, among many others.


Jason is from United States

Jason (40)

I served 4 years in the Marines! ... Jackson, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I have lived 14 months in Japan and 3 months in Korea! I don't little American women because they don't know how to treat a man! I was married for 10 years but my wife passed away! I have a 14 year old son that is amazing! He really is a great kid! He is well mannered and makes straight A's! I am looking for a partner that is attractive, has a big heart, and knows how to treat a man right! I will be good to you, loyal and treat you like a queen! I have a big heart and very loving! I love to travel and outgoing!


Jay is from United States

Jay (46)

Jay (USA) Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 34 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Talk to me and find out. :-) Open minded. I am kind, generous, well mannered. Pretty relaxed and laid back. But can be hard on aggressive people. I have traveled to Colombia before and like the country and people. Hablo espanol ok.


David is from United States

David (68)

Share, support, protect, love, an... Levittown, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 68 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am a widow. Had a long and happy marriage. I like to have fun and laugh. Like to host family gatherings. I like variety want to experience all that life has to offer, but it is not as much fun when you experience it without someone to share it with you.

ROBERT is from United States


looking for a latin lady to share... Fort Myers, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Im half portuguese and half dutch very cultered lived in several countries fluent in 4 languages I have 2 small kids wich live with me . nothing like time to heal the wounds but I believe that now is time to move on and think a little about me .


Ben is from United States

Ben (81)

Professional white male, widowed ... Northport, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 50 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

about finding a wife to share my life and happiness. I am always busy as I do a little selling on automobiles, boats, whatever. I was in marketing for 40 years and just need to keep my sales skills honed. I am an ordained deacon in the Baptist church and active in weekly ministry at the nursing home. Have been volunteering in nursing homes for over 25 years and love every opportunity.


Albert is from United States

Albert (81)

Ola senoras Colombianas en Florid... West Palm Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am Italian-American widower, retired, and I spent most of my professional life in the US Foreign Service and in subsequent international consulting contracts. I retired about ten years ago, but I have been in Florida since 1993.My wife was Colombian, from Cali and we were together for 55 years. I am looking for a lady with a Latin background, similar to mine, which is Italian-American, and whose outlook embraces the world. She must be interested in what's going on all over the the world, not just in her own community or just in the USA.

Monty is from United States

Monty (53)

An Angel for you Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 36 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am recently widowed, I have three grown children. I love to play music. I play the guitar, keyboards, and the acordeon. I love to dance salsa, and cumbia. I like to play vallenatos and cubias on my acordeon. Te quiero mucho Colombia y colombianas.

chuck is from United States

chuck (69)

looking for that special someone ... Vancouver, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 46 - 68 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Hello there my name is Chuck i'm 62 years old. I live in U.S.A Washington State. I'm a widower, of 14 years now. I am in business for self . When not working i spend a lot of time Ballroom dancing. Like going out to movie and nice restaurant love to travel the world and just short trips and have seen a good part of the world and plan to see much more,would like to travel the country's of south america. Looking for lifetime partner. Retiring this coming 2013 moving to Colombia for my retirement years,looking for companion before i arrive


Larry is from United States

Larry (65)

HI Pine Bluff, Arkansas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Hi Ladies !! I bring smiles your way!! I am currently widowed and lost my wife to cancer 3 years ago and miss her dearly but life moves on!! I have a very outgoing personality and never meet a stranger as I enjoy laughter, having fun and doing things with my partner. I enjoy all genera of music , I can get funky with soul, honky tonk with country or play blues on my harmonica. If you are looking for someone who enjoys affection whether a walk on the beach, cuddling on the couch watching a good movie, playing golf, or just enjoy all outdoor activities then you have come to the right place. Life is too short not to have fun!! Currently I am retired military after 22 years of service with the U.S. Army and now serve as an Area Supervisor managing a shift of 90 people destroying Chemical Weapons in Pine Bluff, Arkansas!! I have traveled the world abroad and have always made my home wherever my hat lays at the time!! I would enjoy meeting that special someone to share life experiences with me and that has the same interests as I have but I am always open to new challenges. I would love to hear from you please send some more pictures of you because I believe that physical attraction and chemistry are needed to make a relationship work!! So Ladies take the journey of life with one day, one step, and one breath at a time and who knows maybe something could develop in the future!! If it does I believe in treating you like a queen!!!Until then have a great day and keep smiling. Take care!! Larry

Mike is from United States

Mike (57)

busca de una mujer buena Redondo Beach, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am a very happy, energetic person. I am a very tender, caring and loving man. I do not respond to profiles without fotos. I have sold my business and have friends that tell me Colombia is a great place. Going to come for a month or two to see. Maube you can be my reason to stay in Colombia.


Daniel is from United States

Daniel (56)

Don Danny Gaithersburg, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 40 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I love the tropics and tropical wildlife. I am teacher on the way to becoming a wildlife artist/photographer. I'm looking for someone to share my life and include in my travels, and perhaps build a family. I have little interest in remaining is the US.

Sabai is from United States

Sabai (62)

Stable, widowed, a good partner. Warren, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 54 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am age 62, widowed, still working, thinking about retirement. Retirement in Colombia is a possibility. I have lived all over the US and also Thailand and Kenya. I have a good sense of humor and would try to make you smile and laugh every day. I respect your religion but I am not religious myself. I know a little bit of Spanish, just enough to probably know what you are saying to me, but not enough to respond quickly. (but I can learn). My hobbies are photography and guitar. I have played guitar since I was very young. ------------------------------- I am not yet a paying member here so I cannot write back from here. But I am also on another Cupid site, same name & photos. If you are clever you can find me and maybe write from there? Are you clever?


Jason is from United States

Jason (49)

Looking for a friend first. Aurora, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Hi! I'm kind of new to this, thought i'd give it a try. I'm a simple hard working man who is looking for a just a friendship to start. I'm easy going and easy to please. I own my own contracting company and have worked in construction nearly my whole life. Born and raised in Colorado - but love to travel. Been to Mexico, Canada Europe and recently returned from South America. I'm single (widowed) with a family urging me to move on with my life. I think I just need the right person to do that with.


Terry is from United States

Terry (65)

HONEST AND FAITHFUL MAN SEEKS HIS... Alpharetta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 62 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

A very simple down to earth guy. I am not looking to be anyone's sugar Daddy but rather find my partner for life. I am a great cook so this is something I would want to share. I am lonely for a very best friend who also would be my partner for the rest of my life. I would like to find someone who I could share the same interests.and spend much time together just having a fun. I need someone who will not bring past hurt into our new relationship. If you can't start with me fresh with no past baggage about how men have treated you before it is best we do not talk since I deserve to be fully trusted unless you have a reason to believe otherwise. I am very sorry that you might have been cheated on or lied to. You must remember that was someone else instead of me. I can assure you that not all men do those things. Some of us simply want to find someone that we can cherish the rest of our lives. In order for this to happen she must be looking for the same things which are very important to her.

james is from United States

james (70)

Hi.. Paradise, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

-Hello there, I am a widower. I`m a loving type of man who loves family life very much. I love having children around me. I enjoy the challenges that children come up with, and seem to test our intelligence. That just shows that they are bright and learning all the time. The real challenge in my life will be a woman that chooses to trys and start a new family with me. The type of woman i`d like to be with is an independent woman. Oh did i say something shocking to your ears? Well its true. I am a very different type of man. I have learned from a very good woman who use to be my wife for 29 yrs [a Filipino woman] that if a man ever feels that he has to be in control of a woman to be happy, then he is very insecure. A slave can almost never love her master. A woman has to feel useful and let free to do as she feels is right. When a woman goes shopping and always comes home, then i know i belong to her and she belongs to me. She comes home because she wants to. Not because she has to. This is only part of being happy. For me it`s not enough to except a woman for what she is now, it`s having patents to look forward in time to see what kind of woman she becomes. It takes a lifetime to know one woman. I understand that this idea is a bit frightening to most woman, so i understand if most of you woman find it difficult to respond to me. That’s o.k. I`m an outdoor type of man. I enjoy freshwater fishing. I love camping out and walking through hiking trails. I enjoy walking at the beach in the winter time and at night in the summertime. I wish i could say i love to cook, but i`m terrible at it. Why! Because i make a woman mad at me if i`m in her kitchen, and i always get kicked out of the kitchen by her. I must say this: when a man truly loves a woman, he lives only for that woman, and a woman only lives for her children. The one thing I miss most is the thousand different ways a woman holds my arm as we walk along the beach talking about anything that comes to mind. And many times we don`t talk at all. Its enough just being alone together, and i can tell what she is thinking by the way she holds my arm. Its not just about me, and its not just about her, its always about us. I am looking for the that one special woman who can fill this empty void in my heart. That one special woman who can fill my empty heart with her love. That kind of love that no man can doubt. I am a seriouse type of MAN, not a GUY. A GUY plays with a womans heart. A MAN takes on responsibilty for his actions. He takes on the responsibilty for himself and most of all for the woman he is with and the family. Its not enough for a laddy to say that she wants a MAN, The Laddy must first be WOMAN enough to have a MAN. It is my plan to retire in the far east sometime late this year, or early next year, God willing. So i am looking for the woman, (not a girl)who will stand beside me and work towards a happy life together, to set goals and work for our future together. Now if any of you woman should be interested, then by all means please don`t be afraid to contact me. I will be here. Myheart gose out to all of you weman out there and i hope that you all find what you are looking for. To all of you weman out there, YOURS TRULY 


CARLOS is from United States


Busco un Amor para toda la vida Elizabeth, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 42 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

Hello, I call me Carlos, I consider me a man nornal for my age, I have 41 anuses, of skin triguena, my any hair time was black, today is salt and pepper. I enjoy a lot of the exercises, I am very active and to relax me I listen musica or I read a book, tambien I love the peliculas of all I generate. In my sentimental side, I think that I am a romantico hardened (a little bit one veneered to the old one) but sincere and faithful. I like the work that desempeno, therefore is my bendicion because pleases me the kitchen and tambien the embiente family, I have three children; two males of 21 and 19 anuses and a nena of 14. All they study and they live with me. In my free time i like to travel, tambien to conduct although be in the area where I live, I am very simple and no longer I complicate me the life with meaningless matters, when a problem arises I resolve it immediately and if does not have solucion. ..ya is not problem. I believe in the breeze and in the karma; if one walks with good energia the things go him well and if tries to do badly, the things always are going to leave him badly.

RON is from United States

RON (68)

COWBOY LOOKING FOR LOVE San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed


Ruben is from United States

Ruben (64)

Nice gentleman Brea, California, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 63 for Penpal
Marital Status: Widowed

I am 62 yrs old, a well mannered person. I am very kind, romantic and passionate. I am not judgemental to others, I respect their opinions. I am a thyroid and prostate cancer survivor and I can no longer have any children. I am also diabetic but it is under control. I like going camping out in the mountains, hiking, going to the movies, beaches, shopping, out to dinner, travel to nice places, i do gardening at home and I have a very happy disposition about life and wish to live happy.

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